A cinema style wedding: is it called wedding?
This was news published in a Malayalam daily today. It happened in Thiruvanathapuram the capital of Kerala.
Synopsis: It was the occasion of a marriage, where the bride and groom reached, groom was waiting for bride, and she suddenly turned to her lover and asked her parents to bless. Relatives of bride got violent and tried to man handle the lover but the intervention of locals saved him, ultimately police came, they have taken both the bride and her lover. And she decided to go with her lover.
Certainly, it was hot news for the media, the girl satisfied with since she got her lover. But some question mark remains.
- Was it the right way to put it by the girl?
- What about the family, since they lost their face
- What about the boy (groom) who came to marry her with lots of dreams expectations etc?
I am not sure whether the family was aware about her love affair, if yes it was wrong to compel her to marry another person. If they were not… I don’t see anything wrong in their action.
For that girl, she had enough ways to convey her wish. Why did she wait for the last moment? She could have told this to her family, if they opposed she had another option to tell her would be…I do not know whether she have done it or not. If yes, I will stand along with her saying she was right. Otherwise, no she was absolutely wrong.
Now, we need to think about the entire situation. We are living in a most civilized era, people moving towards western culture. Still there are people living with ancient ideologies. It supposed to be changed.
The boy, who suppose to get marry should have enquired about the girl, at least he could have had a discussion with her…. I am uncertain whether they have done it. My only advice to people those who are going to get marry is ‘discuss everything’. I have a topic in this blog about the things one suppose to discuss…. Have a look …. Be happy.
The whole “discuss everything” idea is completely true. I’ve had half a dozen friends get married and divorced a year later because they went into the marriage with pretty important secrets.
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That’s crazy. Sounds like that family will never get along.